Okay so I am a lesbian. That's not something new. I have been one for almost 3 years now. And I still don't understand why lesbians need to label lesbians. And also why it is so hard to find another soft butch or butch to date. Yes I am a soft butch. Yes I like butch women. Well I like all women. I have dated femmes. I have dated sporty dykes. And I have also dated butch and soft butch. But what I really want to know is why its so hard to find another lesbian like me to date? Is that butches are suppose to date femmes? Really now. Can't I as a butch like the same type of lesbians. Is it a crime. Is it against the lesbian code of ethics? I really hope not. Other wise being a lesbian is gonna become boring. I'm just saying.